Back to school time is here! As the kids head off to class, remember to stay positive, be mindful of how your excitement sounds, be happy for them, not glad to be rid of them, and remember to listen closely to any concerns or fears they have.
We have come to a conclusion in our household: Fair does not mean Equal and equal is not always fair, and that’s OK. Our children, and even society to an extent is all hung up on being fair and equal, however. Sometimes however we have the do what is best or most just, not fair or equal. To properly parent, we are required to do what is right for our children as we see it at that time. Proper Parenting is often full of hard choices.
This is the second in a series of posts intended to demystify the car-buying process for the average parent. In the last post, we broke down the process into several distinct steps. Here is my process, in depth, for answering this first question, “Why am I here?” Why am I replacing my vehicle? Hopefully, you can find some insight here that makes your process easier or your life better.
Over the last few weeks, I have decided to replace my Mini-van, the family grocery getter. What I would like to do over the next few articles is to break down my process for those in the same situation. It doesn’t matter why you need to replace your vehicle, or if you are buying the first one for your new family. The process should be the same.
Well, frankly if you have done your best at teaching them, it won’t be as hard as you think. Your teen is a person, an average human. To relate to them, try the same communication skills that you employ when talking to your associates or your clients. Speak to them like an adult, be engaging and intelligent. Be respectful of their time and their feelings.
It won’t always be easy, good parenting never is. When you make a choice for your family, you will immediately receive push-back from someone. If you decide to err on the side of caution and make strict rules and a secure environment, your kids will rail against it, call you unfair and …
Is my teenager turning into a Millennial? A Hipster maybe?
No. What your teenager is “turning into” is an adult. More accurately, they are not “turning into” anything at all. They are just exploring, trying on new thoughts and ideas to see what fits, and while they do, they are taking those from the group of adults they most closely identify with. They may act like those twenty-somethings that you see at Starbucks…
“My kids are so much smarter than I am when it comes to technology.” How many times have I heard this?. I speak to clients that are bewildered by their children’s use of web connected devices and they always say “My kids are so much better with computers than I am, I just can’t keep up with them.” I say this is a huge cop-out. Your children are NOT smarter than you when it comes to anything. They are more motivated, and they have better support groups…